If your relationship involves physical violence, stalking, continuous location monitoring, threats of self-harm, or active financial/emotional coercion, assertive communication scripts and boundary map negotiations are not safe options. Attempting to negotiate boundaries with a highly controlling, abusive, or volatile partner can escalate danger. Please prioritize your physical safety and seek professional, secure crisis support.
If you are in immediate physical danger, drop this tool and call your local emergency services (911 in the US, 999 in the UK, 112 in Europe) immediately.